What are The Best Educational Toys for Three Year Olds?

Nearly 27 billion dollars are spent each year on toys in the United States.  It is safe to say that people love to buy toys, and children love to play with toys.  However, there is a new trend when it comes to toys and their educational impact on children.  Most parents want their children to be as advanced as possible, and are searching for STEM and educational toys.

The best educational toys for three year olds are designed to stimulate the various aspects of their development, such as:

In this article, you will learn about some of the best educational toys for three year old’s and why they are beneficial to the development of young minds. Let’s Explore!

How to Pick the Best Educational Toys

You will see multiple ads trying to persuade you to purchase the next best educational toy, but believe it or not, every toy is not the best for your child to learn from. 

As noted by WebMD, when searching for educational toys, there are a few key things to keep in mind:

  • How will it help my child?
    • Language development
    • Cognitive development
    • Gross motor development
    • Fine motor skill development
    • Social and emotional development
  • Is it durable?
  • Will it last beyond the current age or trend?
  • Is it an independent toy, or do they need parental support to use it?

Most parents want their children to get a head-start on learning so that they are better prepared for preschool and the education setting.  The critical thing to remember is that learning needs to be fun and engaging at this age.  Do not expect to spend hours pouring knowledge into your child (I’ve tried, with hit and miss success at this age.)  Kids around two years old learn best through play.

Best Toys for Language Development

When it comes to the best toys for language development, you want to look for toys that speak with the simple push of a button.  Here are some examples of toys that will help with your child’s language development:

·Touch & Teach Word Book 

VTech Touch & Teach Word Book (Frustration Free Packaging)

·LeapFrog 100 Words Book

LeapFrog Learning Friends 100 Words Book (Frustration Free Packaging), Green

· Just Smarty Interactive Alphabet Wall Chart

Just Smarty Alphabet Wall Chart for Toddlers 1-3 | ABCs & 123s Kids Learning Toy | Educational Gift for Toddler Ages 1 2 3 4 5 | Speech Therapy Toys for Toddlers 1-3 | Autism Toys for Toddlers 3-4

These toys will help expose your little one to many different words, as well as the numbers and letters. However, while this is excellent practice, it should not be used as a substitute for regular interaction with an adult.

Best Toys for Cognitive Development

Cognitive development refers to how children think, explore, and figure things out (Source: Help Me Grow).  Offering a bit of independence to your child with learning toys helps with cognitive development.  This is a time when blocks and simple puzzles would be useful.

Here are some of the best toys to check out for cognitive development:

·Revanak Shape Color Recognition Geometric Board

Revanak Montessori Toys for 18+ Months Old - Toddlers Wooden Sorting and Stacking Toys for Baby Boys and Girls - Shape Sorter and Color Stacker Preschool Kids Wood Gifts

·CozyBomB Number Puzzle 

CozyBomb Wooden Number Puzzle Sorting Montessori Toys for 1 Year Old Toddlers - Shape Sorter Counting Game for age 3 4 5 year olds - Preschool Education Math Stacking Block Learning Wood Chunky Jigsaw

·Skoolzy Rainbow Counting Bears

Skoolzy Rainbow Counting Bears with Matching Sorting Cups 70 Pc - Toddler STEM Educational Number Learning Toys, Developmental Sensory Bin Motor Skills Activity for Preschool Kids Age 3 +

·Construction Engineering Building Blocks

Brickyard Building Blocks STEM Toys - Educational Building Toys for Kids Ages 4-8 with 163 Pieces, Tools, Design Guide and Toy Storage Box, Gift for Boys & Girls

As you can see, most of these items are puzzles or require building and sorting of some sort. When looking at these toys, make sure the pieces are safe for your child to use. Most are wooden with large pieces that do not pose a choking risk.

Best Toys for Gross Motor Development

For gross motor development toys, you are going to look for toys that help develop the large muscles of the body. There are many different options for toys in this category:

·Ball Pit Tents and Tunnels 

Hide N Side 5pc Kids Ball Pit Tents and Tunnels, Toddler Jungle Gym Play Tent with Play Crawl Tunnel Toy, for Boys Babies Infants Children, Indoor Outdoor Gift, Target Game w/ 4 Dart Balls

·Skywalker Trampolines

Skywalker Trampolines Mini Trampoline with Enclosure Net, 60 - Inch, Blue

·Hippity Hop Ball

Hippity Hop 45 Cm / 18 Inch Diameter Including Free Foot Pump, for Children Ages 3-6 Space Hopper, Hop Ball Bouncing Toy - 1 Ball

·New Bounce Foam Pogo Stick 

New Bounce Pogo Stick for Toddlers - Foam Jumper for Age 3,4,5,6,7,8 - Outdoor Jumping Toys - Birthday Gift for Toddler Girls and Boys

·Schwinn Tricycle

Schwinn Roadster Bike for Toddler, Kids Classic Tricycle, Low Positioned Steel Trike Frame with Bell and Handlebar Tassels, Rear Deck Made of Genuine Wood, for Boys and Girls Ages 2-4 Year Old, Blue

·Radio Flyer Stroll ‘N Trike

Radio Flyer Stroll n Trike
We got this Radio Flyer Stroll ‘N Trike for our son when he was only 1 and we pushed him around on it – and he *still* takes every opportunity to ride it years later.

Backyard Playsets

As social/physical distancing is becoming more of a long term situation, we’ve found ourselves venturing out less and playground visits are dearly missed. Backyard Playsets, swings, and jungle gyms have become hot items.

We’ve been bringing more things that we’d normally let the kids experience at the playground into the home (or yard) to keep them active and developing.

This list includes many toys that can be used outdoors or indoors if you have enough space.  Gross motor skills are very intricately connected to regular exercise, which helps develop large muscle groups.

Best Toys for Fine Motor Skill Development

The development of fine motor skills is of great importance at this age.  Children use fine motor skills to do things like holding pencils, cutting with scissors, and tying their shoes. 

Here are the best toys to help develop a child’s fine motor skills:

·Wooden Lacing Toy

Wooden Apple Lacing Toy with 2 Worms, WOOD CITY Fine Motor Skills Toys, Airplane Travel Toys, Apple Threading Game Early Learning Montessori Toys for Toddlers 1 2 3 Years Old

·Stacking Peg Board

Stacking Peg Board Set Toy | 30 Pegs & Board + Free Storage Bag | STEM Color Learning Sorting Matching Game Montessori Occupational Therapy Fine Motor Skills Toddlers Preschool Boys Girls

·Clamp Bee to Hive Matching Game

Coogam Toddler Fine Motor Skill Toy, Clamp Bee to Hive Matching Game, Montessori Wooden Color Sorting Puzzle, Early Learning Preschool Educational Gift Toy for 3 4 5 Years Old Kids

This is not a comprehensive list of fine motor development toys; however, these are some of the best you will find to help develop these skills with your little one.

Best Toys for Social and Emotional Development

Three-year-old’s need to have toys that help develop their social and emotional skills. If you made it through the “terrible twos,” you already know how emotional children can be. It is vital to encourage social and emotional development through play. 

Here are some of the best toys to accomplish this:

·Hape Eggspressions

Hape Eggspressions Wooden Learning Toy with Illustrative Book, 13 pieces

·Feelings & Choices Flip Book

Feelings & Choices Flip Book | Teach 28 Emotions to Kids & Toddlers | Early Learning Feelings Chart & Book Flash Card Alternative | ASD Friendly Teaching Toy | Parents Teachers & Thera...

·Funny Faces Puzzle

Funny Faces Games for 3+ Year olds Girls, Board Games for Toddler Age 3-5, 58 Piece - Kids Memory Matching Game for 2 to 4 Players, Crafts for Kids, Preschool Activities, Speech Therapy Materials

When looking for toys to support social and emotional development, you will find that many of the toys will require the support of a parent or other adult to allow the child to engage with the toys fully.  This is because there is a dialogue that needs to occur while playing, especially when learning about feelings.

Why Provide Educational Toys

When purchasing toys for your child, it is crucial to provide a variety of toys, including educational options.  Children innately learn a tremendous amount through the act of playing, so you must provide opportunities for interaction with specific educational toys along with toys that are not educationally based. (Source: NAEYC)

Are Bright Colors Important?

You will notice that most children’s toys are brightly colored, which may lead you to wonder if this is a critical part of learning toys. When children are young and have not fully developed their eyesight, bright colors are more likely to stand out to them when playing.  Children can form stronger associations when bright colors are involved.

So, while the colors themselves may not directly correlate to the effectiveness of a toy, they are connected to the child’s ability to remember and make associations. For example, when looking at an alphabet chart, a child will usually be able to associate the letter A with a bright red apple.

Do They Need to Be Expensive?

Quality toys do not need to be the most expensive toys you can buy.  The cost does not determine the effectiveness of a toy.  The toys listed above are (mostly) under $100. Kids love toys, and they are not looking at a price tag when they are playing and learning.

Can a 3-Year-Old Use a Learning Toy Alone?

When you think of learning toys, you may think of toys that require explicit instruction or input from an adult for them to be effective.  The toys listed above are all toys that a child could independently play with and learn from.  The only toys that may need more direct interaction are the social-emotional toys.

It is recommended that children are engaged with an adult during play for a minimum of 30 minutes each day and independently playing for at least 60 minutes each day, as outlined by Kids Health.  It’s helpful for kids to understand how to play with the toys you are providing. Sometimes this is apparent through self-discover, and at other times it’s beneficial (and fun) to interact with kids while they are playing.

Final thoughts on the best educational toys for three year olds

Educational toys are essential for the development of a child because young children learn from play and interaction.  The toys in this article are specifically geared toward the areas of development that a three-year-old needs. However, all children develop differently.

While this list is for three-year-olds, you may have a 2 or 4 year old that will enjoy these same toys just as much. Check out our picks for each age group here:

For our all time favorite STEM & Educational toys (for all ages) check our top picks roundup.


Howie Miller is as dedicated to fatherhood as he is to life long learning. Musician, Photographer, Educator, Consultant, Entrepreneur, Blogger, and founder of STEMtropolis, where you can share his adventures in STEM and STEAM with his family.

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